How To Be More Confident in Your 20s

Alright, let’s talk real. We all want to know how to be more confident. Like, even I, who’s writing this blog post, need to look for more ideas on how to build confidence sometimes. This is because it can feel a bit overwhelming to be in your 20s.

I know some people say our 20s are the “defining decade“, our “launchpad for life“, and a million other fancy terms (not gonna lie, they can get a little too fancy sometimes) However, they can also feel like a messy rollercoaster of emotions and experiences. Some of us are just beginning to understand who we are, and this self-discovery journey can feel overwhelming.

One of the biggest challenges many of us face? Confidence.

We compare ourselves to gorgeous influencers, question our journeys, decisions, and looks, and even wonder if we’re messing things up with life. Let’s be honest, we’ve always been in the social media spiral: “I’m never going to be this beautiful/successful”, “I wish my life looked like this”…

But here’s the secret: there’s no magic formula for navigating your 20s, and building confidence is a journey, not a destination!

Because of this, I want to share a few hacks I used to start being more confident.

How To Be More Confident: Hacks That’ll Change Your Life

1. “Not Knowing” is Totally Okay (Seriously)

Listen, your 20s are all about trying things, figuring stuff out, and maybe even making mistakes. And it’s okay not to have all the answers. Even in our 40s, we won’t have the answers to all of our questions.

So, it’s okay if you don’t know what career path you want to take, or if you feel a little lost sometimes. My tip is: Instead of freaking out and trying to force everything into place, embrace the uncertainty. See it as an adventure!

Think of it like this: the most successful people weren’t born knowing exactly what they wanted to do. They explored different options, faced challenges, and learned from their mistakes. So, don’t be afraid to be open to new experiences. The key is to learn from everything you do, good or bad, and use it to figure out what you truly want.

Just look at me. I’ve been working since I was 17 (now I’m 26), and I’m still in the journey of figure out what I want to do with my life.

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2. Celebrate Your Strengths (and Work on Your Weaknesses)

We all have unique strengths and weaknesses. That’s a fact.

The key to building confidence is identifying and owning what you’re awesome at. Are you creative? A natural leader? Funny? Celebrate these strengths! Let them shine through everything you do.

At the same time, acknowledge your weaknesses. Nobody’s perfect, so see yours as an opportunity to grow. Take classes, watch YouTube videos, or follow people on social media who might teach you some skills you’re looking for.

Remember, growth is a never-ending process. By focusing on both your strengths and weaknesses, you’ll become a more confident person.

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3. Ditch the Comparison Trap

Social media (with its picture-perfect feeds and carefully curated reels) can be an open tap for comparison. We see pictures of people “winning” at life, and suddenly, our accomplishments feel insignificant. I know, I’ve been there.

And, hear me out, comparing yourself to others is THE best recipe for feeling bad. It twists your perception of reality and holds you back from reaching your full potential. Again, I’ve been there.

So, instead of comparing your journey to someone else’s, focus on your own unique path. Celebrate your milestones (big or small), even if all you did today was wake up!

Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who make you feel alive and encourage you to be your best self.

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4. Self-Care is Your Secret Weapon

Y’all know I’m going to talk about self-care whenever I can. And today’s friendly reminder: self-care isn’t selfish.

When you take care of yourself (physically, mentally, and emotionally) you naturally radiate a sense of confidence. So, make sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and doing things you actually enjoy.

And, omg, don’t be afraid to take breaks and say “no”! Setting boundaries is one of the biggest acts of self-love.

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5. Fake It Till You Make It (the Right Way)

I’m not saying fake your lifestyle or live in delusion (though I believe there’s some magic in being delulu too), but faking confidence is key when learning to be more confident.

If you feel nervous when around people, babe keep your head up! You don’t need to socialize with everyone to seem like a confident queen. Just keep that attitude in heaven and give them that “I don’t need your approval to be myself” feeling to everyone.

Remember, your superpower is that you’re unique, use it. Embrace every part of yourself, go on solo dates, and be more in love with yourself every single day.

And don’t panic girl, I got you! Here’s a blog post with solo date ideas to start practicing self-love and be more confident being yourself.

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And don’t forget to save this post for later! You can come to it whenever you’re feeling like you need advice. Remember, I’m your internet bestie!

xoxo,
Dani